When it comes down to things, well with disability or anything you face, It’s a game of chess. You have to lose pieces to gain a position. As you move through life let’s be honest, your going to lose some pieces on your travels. If you lose pieces that doesn’t mean you’ve failed. In a strange way your actually progressing because since you’ve lost your least important pieces you’ve got the best ones till last.
Imagine the other person playing, by taking your basic pieces they’ve rushed there important pieces and left themselves open. Pretty much what i’m saying is don’t rush your journey because you want to save your most valuable pieces till the end of the game. The person who rushes to win , will guarantee lose since they’ve not thought through there method. So take your time focus on your goal and work hard trying to succeed.