I’m not going to lie to you, one of the biggest problems i had was doing things like I’m on repeat from Watching the same series in the day on Tv to listening to the same music repeated. I recently changed that and feel a little better. In myself. I didn’t change for someone, I changed because I wanted to. You need to remember that.
Yea, it was difficult to break the chain but once i had then it was actually easier to change after a little bit of time. Breaking who you are is a difficult task but it’s not impossible. Doing the same things your going to get the exact same answer every single time.
Look at it this way, if you repeatedly do something then everyone is going to know you for that one particular thing , it could be anything. It could be clothing and style you wear. It doesn’t matter what you wear or who your are if your comfortable the way you are then don’t let anyone tell you different.
just try adding something to what you do or subtracting a simple thing. Never let anyone change who you are or how you look. You need to do it for your personal gain not just because someone disagrees with it. So yeah I’m not trying to change you I’m just saying that maybe changing the way people view you then might help you.
Honestly I don’t care what people thing about what i wear or how I look, create who you want to be but do it exactly how you want. Never add parts that you’ve been told to do or subtract something you like doing or wearing.