Every time someone has knocked me back , it actually breaks more and more pieces off where I was struggling. By them trying to knock me down , I actually slowly developed the idea of what I wanted to be and what to completely avoid.
With this happening it has removed all the parts of self doubt and now turned it into something I want and need to do. This is my place in the world and the only way i’m going to succeed is by staying on this path and fighting to reach the top.
The best way to view it is like this , on a plant you chop off the dead leaves for new ones to sprout , imagine those as ideas you have. So you’ve had some ideas which have died and gone which then leaves room for new ones. There’s no time limit for having an idea , it can take weeks , months or even years to find the right path.
Your only going to find the right path if you keep searching for it , you give up and your not going anywhere then what’s the point of trying , don’t keep searching to impress others. You need to do this for you and prove to yourself you are capable of achieving anything if you never give up and you fight till the end.